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Can An Unhappy Marriage Last?

Unhappy married couple arguing.

Unhappy marriages don’t always implode. They often simmer, quietly, bitterly, for years. Sometimes decades.  On the surface, the couple appears functional. Behind closed doors? They’ve stopped speaking with warmth. Intimacy’s been replaced with duty. And the spark that once lit their connection is now barely a flicker. So, how long can an unhappy marriage last? That depends on what’s holding...[ read more ]

Why Do Narcissists Get Married?

Narcissists can get married and still show narcissistic tendencies.

Marriage is one of the most selfless, give-and-take commitments we can make. It doesn’t quite add up as to why a narcissist will choose this route. Someone who craves attention, avoids accountability, and struggles with empathy doesn’t seem like the ideal candidate for a lifelong partnership. But dig a little deeper, and the answer becomes more nuanced. Narcissism doesn’t mean...[ read more ]

Can A Narcissist Be Happily Married?

Have you ever thought about this: Can a narcissist be happily married? Or  Will A Narcissist Ever Change? It’s a question that comes up more often than people expect:  Marriage is one of the most emotionally complex relationships in life. When narcissistic traits enter that relationship, the dynamic often becomes more intense, more fragile, and more difficult to navigate. Many...[ read more ]

Marriage & Mental Health: How Therapy Can Help Both

This represents a married couple using counseling to strengthen their relationship.

Even the happiest couples can feel disconnected. Life stressors, emotional baggage, and daily responsibilities can build up unwanted walls. How closely marriage and mental health intersect is often overlooked. When one is under stress, the other follows. Many people view marriage counseling as something couples try when things have completely fallen apart. But therapy offers so much more than a...[ read more ]

Communication Is Key: Talk To Your Spouse Without Fighting

Couple arguing while communicating. They are seeking marriage counseling.

You start with good intentions. Maybe the conversation is about the dishes, weekend plans, or forgetting to get the groceries. But before you know it, voices are raised, tempers flare, and you are both retreating to opposite corners. Sound familiar? Communication can be one of the most rewarding and frustrating parts of marriage. The words we choose and how we...[ read more ]

What Happens When You Marry A Narcissist?

Narcissistic husband creating an uncomfortable situation with his wife

Marriage can be the best part of life. It starts with connection, excitement, and the feeling that you have found your person. But what happens when the person you marry is a narcissist? The signs aren’t always obvious at first. They may even seem like the perfect partner, confident, charming, and attentive. But over time, patterns start to emerge. If...[ read more ]

Will Narcissist Ever Change?

Man attempts to take woman's phone to represent isolation.

Have you ever interacted with a narcissist, someone who always makes everything about themselves? No matter what happens, they twist the situation to fit their narrative. Such type of behavior is a trait of people with narcissism personality disorder.  Have you ever questioned whether a narcissist is capable of changing? Is it possible for them to step outside their world...[ read more ]

The Most Common Marriage Problems And How To Fix Them

Distant married couple who is experiecing difficulty incommunicating.

Marriage is a long-term commitment, and there can be a lot of challenges. Some marriage problems are more common than others. They are easier to navigate. While love brings people together, maintaining a strong relationship takes effort, patience, and understanding. Many couples struggle with the same issues, yet few know how to resolve them in a way that strengthens their...[ read more ]

The Importance of Active Listening For Couples

couple having a difficult conversation while trying to practice active listening.

Healthy communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. For couples, active listening is crucial in creating a deeper connection and fostering trust. Many people emphasize communication while simultaneously neglecting the importance of listening. Thinking this way often leaves conversations one-sided and feelings misunderstood.   Active listening allows couples to feel heard and valued. Relationships strengthen when both partners work...[ read more ]

Tips For Managing The Holidays With In-Laws

Holiday traditions with in-laws.

Many couples experience family patterns during the holidays and get caught up in their traditions and maybe even those of their in-laws. The holiday season is a time of happiness, but often brings challenges if it is about maintaining relationships with your in-laws. The key to creating harmony during these times lies in effective communication, understanding, and maybe even a...[ read more ]



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